When the composite Moon is sextile or trine composite Pluto: 

Your relationship will open up windows into your own emotional natures that may have been previously either closed or only slightly open. Through each other, you will experience some powerful emotions, as your attachment to each other is intense. You not only feel emotionally attached, but you feel the need to be very involved with one another. This is not a superficial connection, and both of you know this pretty much right from the start. Although the intimate and emotional nature of your relationship is intensely felt by both, the female of the relationship may be more in tune to this vibration. There may be, at times, some fear that a partner is keeping something from the other person--something that threatens the relationship. Be careful not to smother each other or express too much possessiveness if it is based on fear. The need for expressions of attachment and commitment from each other may border on insatiable at times, and the fear of losing each other may be an ever-present "haunt". However, open expressions of attachment are generally forthcoming. You sometimes play each other's psychoanalyst, which can be exciting and illuminating as long as it is under control and neither of you ends up reading too much into what your partner does, says, or asks. Your mutual need to understand each other on an intimate level can be a real bonus. Each of you knows that your partner's feelings run deep, and this is a treasure.   

When the composite Moon is conjunct, square, or opposition composite Pluto:

You are intensely involved with each other, and the attachment runs deep. However, possessiveness based on fear of losing one another can be a big issue in this partnership, perhaps more dramatically expressed on the part of the female. You will need to take extra care not to attempt to control each other by needing to know everything about each other at all times. Fears that one of you is keeping a secret that threatens the partnership may be a self-fulfilling prophecy if it is left to undermine the trust in your relationship. It can be easy for one or both of you to slip into this mode of fear, as your attachment to each other is intense. There is nothing wrong with needing each other, but if that need leads to distorted expressions of attachment, such as manipulation or obsession, you will need to get a handle on it at an early stage before you drive a wedge between you. The intensely emotional nature of your attachment can be a beautiful thing, as you are capable of great intimacy, but this exclusiveness may create a fear of change, of rejection, or of loss which can seriously undermine your partnership over time, to the point of no return. When you argue, it can be very dramatic! Always remind yourselves that attempts to control each other, and the "need" to know where your partner stands on an emotional level at all times, are expressions of fear, not love. One or both of you may end up cracking under such pressures, and your parting could not only be inevitable, but it could get downright ugly. Your relationship was likely to have started with a bang. Perhaps one or both of you entered the partnership after experiencing some trauma, or your intense feelings for one another changed your lives. Perhaps your relationship uprooted you from your past in some way. Whatever the case may be, there is an attachment between you that feels unbalanced from the start, and both of you should work on keeping your feelings for each other aboveboard. 

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