When composite Venus is conjunct composite Neptune:
Both of you idealize and romanticize one another, and your
relationship. Ideals of unconditional perfect love, hopes of
uniting with your True Love or Soul Mate, or of achieving some
sort of rapturous mystical union will all seem possible. The
danger here is that you do not see one another clearly at all, and
that your fantasies and imagination will delude you into believing
whatever you wish to believe. If you can avoid putting each other
on a very high pedestal, and truly allow the other to be a human
being instead of a deity, the severe disappointment which would
inevitably ensue needn't occur.
Another very strong potential is for one or the other (or both at
various times) to feel you must sacrifice yourself, martyr
yourself, or be totally selfless and "giving" - as if you have to
be God - in order to please your partner. Pretending (in any form)
is a real pitfall, as far as your interaction is concerned.
You want to live a high spiritual love, and perhaps in a platonic
friendship this would be more feasible. In a fully embodied
relationship between two imperfect creatures, it is still possible
to strive for. However, if you fool yourselves about your
partner's true nature and character, deep disillusionment is very
likely. All of these issues are destined to play a major role in
your relationship.
When composite Venus is opposition composite Neptune:
Dreamy romanticism and a lack of clarity about one another's less
than lovely qualities can seduce you into believing you have found
Perfection in one another. In some ways you may prefer to idealize
and maintain good images of one another rather than have a real
fully-embodied human relationship. Or, you may truly believe certain
pretenses and later discover how foolish you were. If the two of you
are having a fantasy relationship and wish to maintain an aura of
glamour and romance, it is best for you to acknowledge this. But one
or both of you will be extremely disillusioned if you imagine that
perfect love and Salvation has come in the form of your partner!
Inevitably, starry-eyed worship of one another will eventually be
replaced with a sharp disappointment. You may be more in love with
Love than with the actual person you are with. Sorting through these
issues is destined to be one of the tasks you both will face, if you
wish to be together.
When composite Venus is square composite Neptune:
Romantic illusions and fantasies, erotic imagination and dreams of
perfect Love all play a crucial role in your relationship. To avoid
being severely disappointed and disillusioned, it would be good to
recognize from the start that your partner is not a Goddess or God,
is not meant to rescue or save you from your problems, and is, in
fact, a lot less perfect that you believe! More likely
possibilities, such as pretending to be something that you are not,
or trying to rescue you partner from his or her own predicaments,
can be equally trouble-producing. Either or both of you are apt to
feel you were seduced or lured into the relationship under false
pretenses, but probably you simply fooled yourselves!
If you are willing to accept the less than beautiful and ideal
aspects of one another, an authentic relationship based on
compassion as well as eroticism can evolve. If you can't do this,
the more tragic implications of the phrase "love is blind" will
certainly become clear to you both in time.
When composite Venus is trine composite Neptune:
Enchantment, dreamy romanticism, and a quixotic vision of one
another and yourselves as a couple, will tone your entire
relationship. You may try to be your finest selves - the most
loving, compassionate, giving and devoted of friends to one another
- and thus set yourselves up for a fall from that very high
pedestal!
Nevertheless, in many ways you do bring out the more refined and
beautiful qualities in each other, and certainly this is part of
what drew you together. At least from time to time, you will have
glimpses of paradise with each other.
When composite Venus is sextile composite Neptune:
An aura of enchantment, mystery, and romanticism permeates your
relationship, and maintaining a beautiful image of one another and
of yourselves as a couple is crucial to its success. If either (or
both) of you allows yourself to neglect romance or, in other ways,
forgets to keep the magical element alive, your partner will be
inordinately disappointed. This relationship needs fantasy and
beautiful dreams, candlelight, moonlit escapades, and forays into
paradise! If you two can also be clearheaded at the same time, your
bond with one another can be very sweet. Try your best to maintain
the romantic innocence that characterizes the first stages of your
partnership, as it is precious indeed.
When composite Venus is quincunx composite Neptune:
A great deal of disillusionment and shattered dreams can be avoided
if the two or you are rigorously honest with yourselves and with
each other. If either of you pretends to be more than you are, or
misleads the other in any way, this can be your downfall as a
couple.
Romantic illusions, images of an impossible Perfect Love, fantasies
in which your partner is some kind of deity or savior - all of these
can interfere with conducting a real human relationship with your
partner.
You may have difficulty establishing boundaries with one another.
"Everything you have is mine, and all I have is yours", "If it's
your problem, it's my problem", and similar ideas are apt to
actually entangle you rather than lovingly connect you with each
other.
Neither of you has to be a perfect saint or Divine Love Incarnate!
In fact, learning to discern the imaginary from the real regarding
human love is certainly part of what this relationship is about.
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