When composite Venus is conjunct composite Saturn: 

At best, the two of you will take your relationship with each other seriously, and are willing to work on the problems you have. A strong sense of responsibility, even obligation, toward one another permeates your bond. However, you are apt to feel that all you do is work on the relationship, that it is beset with difficulties, disappointments, and a sense of heaviness, and that there is meager reward for all of the effort required. There will be very little easy pleasure and lighthearted sweetness. Your affections turn cool, even cold, toward one another when you let the burdens you share become the sole focus of your togetherness. It is rather easy for distance and separateness to grow between the two of you.

On the other hand, you may want very much to be close but circumstances or fate prevent this from occurring. In either case, frustrated love feelings and inhibitions about giving and receiving wholeheartedly are bound to be a major challenge with the two of you. A feeling of restriction and containment, and emotional congestion makes it difficult for either of you to be truly joyful together. However, if you are not seeking bliss, and a more subdued, committed bond is what you want, this may be a good choice.
 

When composite Venus is opposition composite Saturn: 

This relationship is destined to face some major obstacles, and it may be very difficult for the two of you to even come together in the first place. Some emotional distancing, which may take the form of one or both of you feeling very resistant or even "turned off" by the other, can be expected right from the start. On the other hand, outside circumstances may prevent you from the full sharing you would wish. In either case, unrequited and unfulfilled love will be a theme in your relationship.

When composite Venus is square composite Saturn: 

Unrequited and unfulfilled love will be a theme in your relationship. It may be that outside circumstances prevent you from being together as fully as you would wish, or the blockages come from within the two of you. Fears - of loss, separation, or abandonment - may well block you from sharing your love, surrendering fully, and letting feelings of closeness flow. Insecurities and lack of trust can hold you back from even coming together. And if you do come together, true intimacy will be hard to achieve. A certain lack of generosity and openness, and an overall feeling of caution and tightness, characterize your bond.

Part of the purpose of this relationship is to let you see what you really need and what you are truly capable of giving in close relationship to another, but it is principally through frustration that this insight occurs.

When composite Venus is trine composite Saturn: 

This relationship has excellent prospects for longevity and permanent friendship. Ardor and high romance may or may not be included, but certainly constancy of feeling, commitment, and building something valuable together over time will be.

The only drawback to this quality of steadiness which permeates your bond is a tendency to take one another for granted and to rely on each other in an unconscious way. You may forget to celebrate your love or to warmly show your appreciation for your partner, simply because they are always there, and you expect they always will be.

As a couple, you two are able to successfully balance pleasure needs with practical considerations. You may appear rather subdued or frugal to other people, either in the way you spend money or the way you show love for one another. But if you are not seeking a flamboyant love affair, this quieter love may suit you both just fine.

When composite Venus is sextile composite Saturn: 

There is a great deal of discretion, restraint, concern for propriety or proper form, and a certain subdued quality to your relationship. You are both sober and realistic regarding one another, unlikely to be disappointed by overblown expectations or fantasies. Steadiness, constancy, staying by the other in good and bad times, helping one another in very practical (if unromantic) ways - all of this will contribute to the tone of your relationship. This can easily be a permanent friendship, even if the ardor between you cools. Shared financial matters or work may well be a significant aspect of your bond, also.

When composite Venus is quincunx composite Saturn: 

Caution, restraint, fear of disappointing or being disappointed, and periodic feelings of distance and withdrawal will characterize your relationship. Inevitably, something will come between you, be it other commitments and obligations, outside circumstances, or your own needs to be apart from time to time. Sexual inhibitions or an emotional fear of closeness also limits what you are willing to express with one another. If other indications and aspects of your relationship are positive and fulfilling, you may be able to overcome these insecurities. But without any doubt, it will take some committed effort!

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