Sexual Astrology
Astrology of Sex:Determine the positions of Venus and Mars by sign and learn the
sexual secrets of your partner, and yourself!
If you don't know the positions
of Venus and Mars, refer to these tables:
Venus
Sign Table
Mars
Sign Table
OR click
here
to find the positions of all your planets.
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When Venus or Mars is
in Aries, sex is
best when it's spontaneous and unrestricted. These people
melt when their partner gives themselves to them innocently and
purely. Some of them look for trouble in love, and are
addicted to the conquest. Their heads are erogenous zones—they love it when you mess up their hair and grab their face
when they are making love. They can be rather selfish in
bed, and quick. They can get impatient with too much
foreplay, preferring to get right to the point. Sometimes
aggressive, and generally fast, these lovers are sincere and
enthusiastic in their sexual expression, but not always
constant. Their desires are powerful indeed. While other
signs may be most aroused by the romance of the
moment, both male and females with this position are
especially aroused by their partner's sexual organs, plain
and simple. These people fall in and out of
"crush" easily—they only feel alive when they
have someone to desire.
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When Venus or Mars is
in Taurus, the
sexual nature involves all of the senses. Touch and smell
are supremely important to these lovers. These are the most
physical of sexual partners. No frills sex is quite
fine, as long as the mood is right and there is plenty of
physical contact. These lovers don't have a reputation for
spontaneity or variety, but they are good at what they do
nonetheless, simply because they are truly right there with
you. Abstaining from sex is especially difficult for Taurus,
so finding a regular sex partner is particularly important.
Their sexual stamina during love-making is long-lasting and
steady. Although generally patient, their style is natural
and physical, and intellectualizing the sex act would only
serve to baffle Taurus.
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When Venus or Mars is
in Gemini, use
words in bed with them. Talk turns them on, and they love to
kiss! Oral pleasures are extra special for these lovers.
They love role-playing, as long as it is varied. They are
generally fun in bed, if you can forgive their sudden bursts
of speech during the act. To you, an intellectual
conversation may interrupt lovemaking, but to them, it's
just extended foreplay. Sometimes given to trying too much
in one session, these lovers are enthusiastic and curious
about all kinds of sexual expression. Still, many people
with this position are not wanton lovers. The Gemini
tendency to over-think brings up all of the "buts"
and "what ifs" surrounding sex. They are less
driven by their desires than they are by their
intellect.
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When Venus or Mars is
in Cancer, you'll
get one of the most sensitive and sweet lovers. When they're
not pouting, they are romantic and gooey with you. They are
turned on by slave scenarios, and they may like it when
you're a little mean and aggressive in bed, as long as they
know you love them. Some of them are turned on by the idea
of making a baby, and others just love the idea of being all
yours in bed. They are known as the sign most attracted to
breasts, and they generally like their men rather masculine
and their women feminine, at least in fantasy. They
don't always let you know what turns them on, and expect you
to intuit their sexual needs. Their style in bed is
protective and soothing.
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When Venus or Mars is in
Leo, the fantasies
often revolve around devotion and attention. These people
are most turned on when their partner thinks they are gods
or goddesses. Although they will take care of their
partners in bed, their natural inclination is to get off
themselves. Their pride in their lovemaking compels them to
try to be the best in bed. While some want a mate they can
show off, many prefer not to have two stars in the same
household. They can be quite possessive and jealous,
although they'll often try to hide this fact. In fact, they
may put their partners to the test every now and again, and
the more insecure ones will demand the world from their
partners, if only to have them prove their love. They are
prone to fibbing when it comes to love and sex, as they are
out to impress their mates. They are attracted to inequality
in sexual scenarios. However, they won't let you always play
the knave—they are attracted to seeing you in the most
regal of scenarios too. It is hard for these people to
separate love and sex. Even their most erotic sexual
fantasies are infused with love and affection. They can sometimes come on too
strong, and get impatient when their needs are not met soon
enough, but you may appreciate their direct sexual
expression, and their openness in bed.
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When Venus or Mars is
in Virgo, there is
generally a healthy attitude towards sex. Sex to them is a
bodily function, necessary for health and general
well-being. Everyday stresses and tensions are released in
sex, whether it's with others or with themselves. They are
turned on by people who have largely gone unnoticed. Simple
and sweet is the way they like their bed partners. They also
get turned on by the idea that they are your slave. They
love doing little things for you, and get worked up when
they know you appreciate all the things they do. They can be
a little insecure about their own bodies, and they make up
for it by paying close attention to their methods of turning
you on. They are very respectful of your likes and dislikes,
and focus on the things that have had the most success.
Virgo is the sign of the virgin, and this aspect gives
others the idea that they are very selective. Don't be
entirely fooled by this,
however. They are not as picky as they appear. In fact, they
love imperfections and have the best time with a partner who
needs care. They'll make a project out of you, and you will
likely never feel quite so attended to with anyone else.
Their fantasies often feature the downtrodden and inexperienced. They are insatiably curious about sex,
although many don't take their curiosity much beyond
fantasy. Voyeurism is especially appealing to these lovers. We are giving Virgo a little more
attention than other signs simply because we feel this sign
has been misunderstood on the topic of sex. They are
generally not as picky and particular as their reputation
says—and they are not as "virginal" either. In
fact, they want to please and to be savvy in the lovemaking
arena. They'll generally "do" more than many other
signs, and they're not afraid of getting dirty either,
within the confines of a healthy relationship.
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Recommended and Related Reading:
Linda Goodman's Love Signs
Cafe Astrology Note: This book is a classic: see how each Sun Sign relates
to another. Beautifully written, over 900 pages.
Seduction by the Stars : An Astrological...Guide
to Love, Lust, and Intimate Relationships Cafe Astrology Note:
Although based only on Sun
Signs, this manual is written well and is very descriptive. It
can just as well be read with Venus signs in mind. Turn-ons and turn-offs
for each sign of the
zodiac.
How to Be a Great Lover:...Girlfriend
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Time-Tested Techniques that will Blow His Mind
Cafe Astrology Note:
This popular new book is
not an Astrology book, but is worth mentioning here,
while we are on the subject of pleasing a lover.
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