Romantic Compatibility and Conflict Report
Romantic Compatibility and Conflict Report for
Birth Data for Farrah:
February 2, 1947
Corpus Christi, Texas
Birth Data for Ryan:
April 20, 1941
Los Angeles, California
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Farrah:
Sun position is 13 deg. 12 min. of Aquarius
Moon position is 4 deg. 38 min. of Cancer
Mercury position is 20 deg. 47 min. of Aquarius
Venus position is 26 deg. 27 min. of Sagittarius
Mars position is 6 deg. 33 min. of Aquarius
Jupiter position is 25 deg. 13 min. of Scorpio
Saturn position is 4 deg. 49 min. of Leo
Uranus position is 17 deg. 58 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 10 deg. 41 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 12 deg. 10 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 5 deg. 01 min. of Cancer
MC position is 21 deg. 38 min. of Pisces
2nd cusp position is 27 deg. 51 min. of Cancer
3rd cusp position is 22 deg. 29 min. of Leo
5th cusp position is 26 deg. 00 min. of Libra
6th cusp position is 2 deg. 01 min. of Sagittarius
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 21:10:00
Time Zone: 6 hours West. Lat & Long: 27 N 48 01 97 W 23 46
Positions and Data for Ryan:
Sun position is 0 deg. 14 min. of Taurus
Moon position is 26 deg. 06 min. of Aquarius
Mercury position is 14 deg. 14 min. of Aries
Venus position is 0 deg. 36 min. of Taurus
Mars position is 12 deg. 36 min. of Aquarius
Jupiter position is 21 deg. 37 min. of Taurus
Saturn position is 15 deg. 41 min. of Taurus
Uranus position is 24 deg. 40 min. of Taurus
Neptune position is 25 deg. 27 min. of Virgo
Pluto position is 2 deg. 02 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 9 deg. 35 min. of Cancer
MC position is 23 deg. 06 min. of Pisces
2nd cusp position is 0 deg. 55 min. of Leo
3rd cusp position is 24 deg. 27 min. of Leo
5th cusp position is 28 deg. 09 min. of Libra
6th cusp position is 5 deg. 44 min. of Sagittarius
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 17:34:00
Time Zone: 8 hours West. Lat & Long: 34 N 03 08 118 W 14 34
Chapter 1: Enjoyment, Closeness and Lasting Impressions
This section is based on the idea that there are three basic needs in every relationship:
* Interest, energy and stimulation or sexuality.
* Enjoyment, abundance, expansion of awareness and happiness.
* Patterns for commitment, consistency, teaching each other or reaffirming something essential one for the other and vice versa.
The sort between your charts is for eleven separate aspects that define energy, fun and lasting impressions between you. Most strong relationships have at least four to six of these aspects between their charts.
Farrah's Sun Conj Ryan's Mars:
You probably felt an instantaneous attraction to each other. At least you were clearly and obviously aware of each other's energy fields and in some cases may have felt that your personal space was being invaded. This aspect indicates a challenge to act and to express who you are. You are together to begin something or to be initiated into a new aspect of yourselves, your life or destiny. You will both need to decide what exactly that will be. There is an insistent energy generated when you are together. You will feel stimulated or even compelled in some important way in the relationship. This aspect can also bring up competitive drives, more so than youíve felt with others. This can be a boon or it can cause a struggle in your relationship. Each of you is responding to the initiatives of the other. You can motivate each other to achieve more. If your desire to motivate crosses the line and becomes controlling, thatís when youíll have the most trouble. No one wants to be controlled and youíll have to decide who will take the lead. Your relationship will have a very physical and active quality. Participating in some sport or physically active project can alleviate excess build-up of energy. Sex is likely to be important. Setting mutual goals for the future of the relationship and planning how you will achieve them will help to soak up the need to take action that this aspect implies. This joining between you wants progress and forward momentum, so be sure to provide and maintain new initiatives and a good dose of excitement. If each person is simply pursuing their own agenda there really isnít a relationship, now is there?
Farrah's Asc in Cancer and Ryan's Asc in Cancer:
Sharing the same ASC sign is a bit like looking in the mirror. Youíll be observing another person using some of the same patterns and behaviors that you use. Although disconcerting to say the least, you will learn a great deal about yourself through your partnerís behavior. The two of you tend to have similar ways of projecting yourself into life, a similar outlook and energetically identical ways of approaching situations. The opportunity here is for greater tolerance and understanding. The message is self-development and refinement of personal expression, as you observe another person using energy like your own but managing it somewhat differently. Because of the reflection, you will learn new things about yourselves. Additionally, you will gain a sense of how others perceive you and your behavior.
Farrah's MC in Pisces and Ryan's MC in Pisces:
You have similar career styles and objectives and priorities. You may both work in the same type or a closely related career. You can easily sympathize or identify with the career issues of your partner because they are so much like your own. The intent of this aspect is to remind each other in some way of what is most important to strive for, or what is worth your commitment of time and energy. You can each help the other with matters pertaining to those objectives or your careers. One intention beneath this aspect is to emphasize career or top priority matters and youíre together to work on this. You share many of the same overall priorities and may decide to strive for the same achievements in life.
Farrah's Moon Conj Ryan's Asc.:
You will feel a strong and quite natural emotional connection with each other. Very likely, you will stimulate a wide range of emotions in each other. You are even likely to tap into the past and bring forth feelings long held in check. You may be so much at ease in each otherís company that you reveal personal information naturally, surprising both of you. Something about the other person makes you feel safe enough to allow this. Emotions arise readily but may not always be comfortable and easy to deal with. In the moment, you may feel free to tell all but after the fact, you may be concerned about what youíve so readily expressed. Thereís no way around it, this relationship will be a strongly emotional one. Be careful of projecting past experiences into the current relationship. The aspect asks you to deal with stored emotions and how you are using the past in relation to the present moment. You will find yourselves sorting through a great deal of sensitive feelings and the sheer flood of emotions can be overwhelming at times. Growing too dependent on your partner to satisfy too many of your emotional needs could be another issue here. You will each have to decide which emotions of the other you can integrate and how best to handle the inevitable extra sensitivity you generate when you are together. Sometimes the emotional reactiveness to each other creates misunderstanding or you rub each other the wrong way. Trust and caring will be vital in your relationship to calm the waves of emotion. Reassure each other but give each other a break. It is important that you find an outlet for your excess emotions. Giving to others in some form of joint community service could be one way that works for you. Creative outlets could be another.
Ryan's and Farrah's Sun and Saturn in mutual hard aspect:
There is a serious quality in your relationship and a strong bond with each other. You may feel obligated toward each other or there could be obstacles making it difficult for you to be together. It is important for you to determine the level of commitment and responsibility you are willing to make. There are bound to be some obstacles for you to overcome in your life together. You may find the challenges strengthening to your bond with each other or they may prove to be burdensome. You have chosen this level of relating in order to develop endurance, integrity or to build something lasting together. This aspect tests your sense of integrity and right and wrong. Either one of you may resist these forces and choose not to take on the challenge but if you do, you will be stronger for it. This aspect requires a level of maturity and acceptance of certain responsibilities. No wimps need apply. If you focus only on the difficulties between you they will loom larger. If you focus on resolving your problems with mutual respect, your relationship will grow stronger and more stable over time. You have something important to accomplish together. Whatever the developmental level that you are able to reach, this relationship will create an impact that will not soon be forgotten.
Ryan's Moon Square Farrah's Jupiter:
This energy between you expresses the endless possibilities available and encourages the freedom to express your emotions. At the same time, the aspect leans towards excessive expression. Whether an expression is excessive, over the top or fitting for a particular context, is something the two of you will have to decide. How much is too much and the resultant consequences, is the learning curve you will be testing together. This aspect requires that both of you determine how you are exceeding your boundaries and whether thatís a good thing or not. Emotions will go out of control from time to time particularly when one of you is overwhelmed with too much to handle. The intent of this aspect is to teach you better judgment and encourage wisdom from the many and varied experiences you actively seek. There will be times of poor judgment when you will discover that you failed to take an important element of a situation into consideration. Resist saying "yes" until youíve evaluated the conditions or slept on the idea or proposition. Exaggeration and failing to keep promises will create problems for you and so will overoptimism without full knowledge of the facts. If you experience too much "bad luck", re-evaluate your choices and be sure to be generous wherever you can to maintain the balance between taking and giving in your lives together.
Ryan's Moon Sextile Farrah's Venus:
There is a genuine liking of each other, a very natural affection and sweetness in your relationship. It is one aspect between you that will support you during times of conflict. This energy combination adds to the desire for partnership and naturally gravitates to finding mutual ground for agreement. You will enjoy creating a secure and appealing home environment, if you share living space. There is a natural aesthetic appreciation that could lead you to participate in various artistic or creative pursuits. You will be drawn to the finer things in life and will have to keep tabs on your budget. Others will respond easily to the warm and affectionate energy you have for each other, since it will be obvious that you like each other. Social activities are highlighted and with a bit of effort the two of you can create a fine network of friendships.
Chapter 2: Emotions and Communication Between You
These aspects detail the quality of the emotional connection and basic comfort between the two of you and your ease or difficulty in communicating, talking with each other and simply understanding where each of you is coming from. These aspects also describe how you reason together and resolve issues or problems.
Farrah's Moon in Cancer, and Ryan's is in Aquarius:
Although you are attracted to each other on many levels, your basic day-to-day habits are probably very different. You approach life's mundane chores and happenings in ways that may not be clearly understood by your partner. Your feelings and responses can sometimes be confusing for the other person, as much as they care for you and want to understand. This can cause not only friction on a regular basis but also frustration for both of you. Your habits and peculiarities can grate on each other and be the cause of arguments and misunderstanding. If you care for each other, you will, with patience and willingness to compromise, resolve some of these differences. Still, you operate differently internally, which stems very much from your upbringing and how you responded to your early conditioning. These habits and predilections can be difficult to change, and you may simply have to accept the differences in each other. Discussing your feelings openly is a crucial part of this combination. There is a good chance that, once you really understand the emotions behind the attitude or habitual responses of your partner, greater tolerance will result. On the other hand, once your partner understands how you are affected by a particular response or habit, modifying the offending or annoying behavior is part of the compromise necessary for relationship harmony. This aspect definitely requires more tolerance, acceptance and willingness to allow for differences in mood and reaction. You have attracted this combination because you need to dig deeper into your habitual ways of responding and seek out the roots of your behavior by exploring your upbringing. There are many things you do that are unconscious and automatic, and contact with your partner will allow you to take a closer look, modify the negatives and also reaffirm your strongest feelings.
Ryan's Mercury in Aries, and Farrah's is in Aquarius:
There are many different ways to communicate and the two of you seem to be on the same wavelength most of the time. In other words, your partner understands and responds well to your style and method of reasoning, thinking and expressing your thoughts and feelings. You can make yourselves understood the first time, without rehashing and reiterating endlessly. Of course, you won't agree on everything all of the time, but coming to agreement on issues important to you or perceiving what the other wants to communicate will be easier. Your styles of intelligence are also similar and your preferences for mental stimulation could be the same. You are likely interested in many of the same subjects or enjoy learning together. In fact, one the best features of your relationship is that you can say about each other, "You understand me, you really understand me. I can tell you anything." You can talk for hours and never get bored. There's simply a natural connection which will make the rest of your lives together -- and your inevitable challenges -- that much easier. Because, when you put your heads together, you're more likely to arrive at a solution you can both live with than either of you could separately.
Chapter 3: Fulfilling Each Other's Partnerships Needs
These aspects explain how you meet each other's desires and dreams in special partnerships and one-on-one relationships. These aspects are based on what your natal chart describes that you're looking for in any major relational interaction.
Ryan's Sun Square Farrah's 7th house ruler, Saturn:
You have an important task to execute together. There is a seriousness of purpose that you will both feel, even when you first meet. You will be unable to take each other for granted and in fact find that you respect each otherís competence. Although you feel the importance of the connection, you will have challenges and tests that will sometimes be daunting. These are the tests that will determine whether it is possible for the two of you to forge a longer-term relationship or commitment with each other. Some of your issues are trust, respect, commitment and integrity. Another likely issue is one of time. It could be that when you meet, one or even both of you are for some reason, unavailable to establish a relationship. You may have to wait for another time to make contact or negotiate a contract together. Doing business together is a strong possibility, since you are both inclined to be ambitious and want to progress and advance in your careers and lifestyle in general. A rift can take place if the two of you cannot agree on principles that are essential to one or the other of you. The intent of this aspect is to create certainty in both of your minds by testing the rules you live by, how much you are willing to compromise and for what. If you succeed in forging a commitment together, others will tend to look up to you and respect your characters and how you conduct yourselves in life and work.
Farrah's Mercury Square Ryan's 7th house ruler, Saturn:
Itís possible that you meet in a formal or professional setting or that you need to get past some formalities before really feeling comfortable with each other. Even beyond that, your partnership has a serious and sober side to it. One or both of you will need consistency in the way you interact with each other and confirmation that you have a meaningful relationship and are important in each otherís lives. Demonstrations of caring and affection can of course be expressed in many ways, but your partner will want to be sure that you can be trusted to mean what you say. Trust is a key factor in making your relationship effective and solid. One or both of you may have had your trust broken previously, so more time and patience may be required to believe in each otherís trustworthiness. Keeping your word and your promises will be key. This particular aspect demonstrates and requires that your actions speak louder than your words. The intent of this aspect is to test the strength of your commitment and to recognize and practice right thought, action and attitude toward others or suffer the consequences. In striving for responsibility and credibility, stay flexible rather than rigid. Be sure to allow yourselves time simply to enjoy life. Forgive its vicissitudes and donít expect everything to be perfection, at all times. Place a limit on your expectations and your judgment.
Ryan's Venus Square Farrah's 7th house ruler, Saturn:
After just a short while together, you may feel that your relationship has a fated quality or that you were meant to be together in some important way. It's possible that you can recognize the reasons you are together easily or they may develop over time. Whether you have a conscious understanding of what draws you to each other is not as important as your acknowledgement of the inescapably deep feelings you do have. There is a certain amount of ambition that comes with this combination, and you will have to decide how to balance and mesh your careers with your personal life. Your commitment to each other is likely to be tested, and how you pass the tests will set the course of your life or contract together. Each of you may bring personal responsibilities to the relationship and you will tend to create more in your partnership together. You will gradually determine patterns and boundaries that suit your style and fit the level of responsibility and leadership you wish to assume. The intent of this aspect is to bring you in touch with the core principles by which you live and the standards that define your characters. The strength and reliability you display will be recognized by others, and they will trust you with as much responsibility as you are able and willing to shoulder.
Ryan's Pluto Conj Farrah's 7th house ruler, Saturn:
The relationship you establish together will challenge and transform both of you. You have a powerful effect on each other. You need to guard against trying to control one another. Seek rather to empower each other and support the desires and ambitions you have. If you join forces, you can achieve great things and even become experts in your fields. Fighting each other will be a great loss, because both of you are strong and the battle will drain your resources for achievement. This is not the easiest of aspects to handle and you will have challenges that will either make you stronger or bring an end to your partnership. There is even the possibility of scandal. Taking charge of your patterns and supporting the intentions of your relationship will guard and protect it from needless harm. Nip negative habits in the bud to prevent ruts from forming. Maintenance is your best bet for a powerful and successful partnering. The intent of this aspect is to remind you to respect the needs and desires and even the habits of your partner. You will learn that you cannot change your partner but only yourself and your attitude toward your partner and your relationship. This aspect teaches major lessons and they are only arrived at with deep soul searching and an honest integrity. If you and your partner are able to agree to the terms of your life together, you have the potential to be very influential and contribute a great deal to the community and society in which you live.
Farrah's 4th house cusp Trine Ryan's 7th house ruler, Saturn:
It's possible that you met each other through some type of teaching or training program or even through work. Respect is key in your relationship. You may initially be attracted to each other because you admire the skill, expertise or credentials of your partner. Just be sure the respect is equal and that you both acknowledge the worth and achievements of each other. It's quite possible that you work together or that you have similar goals and wish to collaborate on a work project. Excellence will be another key issue and you may have differences of opinion as to what to do and how to do it. Using the guideline of respect, you can resolve and compromise in order to produce an excellent result. Commitment to each other and your joint project, if you have one , will be necessary for each of you to do your best work. In fact, you may need to have a written contract to remind yourselves of what you have promised and what you want to achieve. The intent of this aspect is to remind you of where you want to go and how you wish to get there. Determination and decision will be strongly stimulated in both of you as a result of your partnership. Having a common goal will make the journey so much easier. Or you can choose to break the task into smaller chunks and share leadership of separate pieces of the work. In that way, each of you can take turns being the big cheese. Work issues and family concerns will take up a large portion of your time and attention.
Chapter 4: Your Closest Contacts, Your Strongest Themes
This section interprets the closest connections between your charts. The idea is that the closest ties explain the major or central themes of your relationships and the reason you have come together. The nature of these aspects will also define the main activities, interests and patterns that comprise your life together.
Notice that in this section each paragraph contains both the easier expression of energies as well as the more challenging ones. Both interpretations are included because these close connections pertain to the central learning curve of your relationship. Based on the premise that the more exact the connection (also the closest energetic contact) between your pair of planets, the more psychologically significant the aspect will be for each of you. This means that you are likely to be strongly influenced by each other in the areas described. Because of this, it will be useful to consider both the easier and more challenging interpretations even though you lead with one of them. You will, from time to time and in various circumstances, probably exhibit some elements of each group, both the easier expressions as well as the more challenging ones. Another thing -- it's possible with both types of aspects that you will have the same challenges but simply respond or react to them in different ways. The goal is to rise to the best possible expression of each combination. This is the learning curve and this bestows wisdom.
Ryan's Jupiter Trine Farrah's 4th house cusp (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is to reach high and strive to attain your most important dreams. Learning, adventure and wisdom are what you seek.
Easier aspects: A clear aim, strong skills and a positive attitude will allow you to reach your goals every time. You are generally easygoing with each other and understanding of changes in schedules and tempo, because your lives are filled with many extra activities through work and at home. You are each other's best coaches and support each other's projects. People consider you lucky, but you know it's a matter of being prepared and when opportunity knocks, being willing to take the risk for what you want in spite of your fears.
Challenging aspects: You have great courage and enthusiasm, but, at times, that very same energy makes you overdo it. Be sure you are centered, that your motives are clean and you've taken the time to take aim for your goal. Keep remembering that you are a team and you'll curb your competitiveness with each other. Dissipation or overindulgence will dull your edge. Scattering your energies among too many projects can diffuse your influence. Keep bragging to a minimum and keep your eye s on the prize that's worth your efforts.
Ryan's Mars Opp Farrah's Pluto (challenging aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is to understand, express and harness the wealth of human emotion, passion and power.
Challenging aspects: In your relationship, you will be dealing with the deep and sometimes unresolved emotional and psychological conflicts of your partner. Intimacy makes these wounded areas of your partner's psyche more vulnerable. So tread carefully and also don't overreact. Spend necessary time to understand what motivates you and be sure to "own your stuff," as they say. Avoid blaming others or projecting your hurts. Work with your frustrations and your passion and learn to control your angry responses. Self-control, now that's real power.
Easier aspects: As partners, you are able to focus your energies easily on what you want from life and you have the energy to attain it. You pursue each other's love or respect with great passion and power and, your bond is a strong one. You will be solicited for positions of power once people understand that you can make things happen in a big way. Part of giving back can be to encourage and train younger folk to persist and go for the prize.
Ryan's Moon Sextile Farrah's Venus (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship themes are valuing emotional balance, a beautiful and harmonious home environment and graciousness and fairness in all your dealings with others.
Easier aspects: You have a natural charm and a way of diffusing tensions in times of conflict. In fact, you don't really like conflict and confrontation and are quite happy in offering compromises whenever possible. Your relationships with others tend to be positive, although there are times when you fail to say what is necessary for fear of upsetting the apple cart. You will have many friends and associates, and social engagements will always be important in your lives. You strive for beauty and equanimity.
Challenging aspects: Taking each other for granted and failing to give praise or acknowledgement for favors is an issue that you will have to deal with. Self-indulgence can also make life a bit difficult. Living beyond your means or seeking to keep up appearances will eventually create strain in your relationship. Take time to identify what's the most important value to strive for in any situation You will also learn how much to compromise and when it's too much, even for the sake of peace.
Farrah's Sun Conj Ryan's Mars:
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your relationship theme will revolve around your separate and mutual identities, your careers, how you initiate action and your involvements in progressive ventures. How you deal with anger is another essential issue.
Challenging aspects: Impatience to get going or feeling held back can cause misunderstandings. There is almost a compulsion to take action and at times you will be seen as aggressive. At other times, your directness will get something that was stuck moving again. You will need to learn to modify your impatience both with yourself and with others. The expression and resolution of anger between you can be problematic. Take time to cool off before you seek to resolve your differences. Be sure to give each other credit when credit is due and work on your selfishness and need for immediate gratification.
Easier aspects: You are an energetic couple and will seek many opportunities to be active or to be leaders in your careers or your community. You are initiators rather than followers. Physicality is important, as well as maintaining a healthy body and an active sexual expression. You seem to have an easier time finding positive ways to handle anger and generally have a healthy self-image.
Ryan's Moon Square Farrah's Jupiter (challenging aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is the enhancement and expansion of positive feelings through learning, teaching, traveling, sports or risk-taking. Choosing wisely from among these many possibilities will also be important.
Challenging aspects: Your nature is generous and optimistic but your inclination toward mood swings or going to extremes is a bit more difficult to balance with this aspect. Still, it is important that you do this. Poor judgment arising out of excessive optimism can get you into trouble or open you to being taken advantage of. Be careful whom you trust and, if something looks too good to be true, it probably isn't. Be joyful but not naÔve. Check all claims for accuracy and veracity and you will be much happier and keep more of your resources. Resist gambling or excessive boasting about your accomplishments. Be sure to balance the advantages offered you by giving back.
Easier aspects: There is a natural joy, generosity and good fortune that comes with this aspect. You tend to give freely of your feelings and are able to express gratitude openly and willingly. There are times when you are excessive or too effusive, but most of the time people love your infectious and vibrant energy. You tend to be fortunate in attaining and generous in giving of the resources you have.
Farrah's Mercury Square Ryan's Jupiter (challenging aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is gaining wisdom through a wide range of learning experiences. By taking risks, exploring and adventuring, you seek to broaden your knowledge base and exercise your mind and body.
Challenging aspects: Your enthusiasm can run out of control at times and you will find yourselves overwhelmed by promises you've made or resources you've spent. Although you are generous, you can splurge to a fault and create problems for yourselves. Keep in mind your primary goals and your security needs. There is a tendency to exaggerate and embellish for effect in your communication. Why not put this skill to positive use in writing, storytelling or the dramatic arts?
Easier aspects: There's a jubilant, generous energy that surrounds you. The two of you are energetic and enjoy many and varied activities. You appear to have reached a good balance between the mental and physical. You prefer to be active and stimulated but you will favor either mental activity or physical activity a bit more. Living life fully is clearly your goal. You generate opportunities while at the same time being generous with your own resources. Teaching, writing, reading or traveling are among your favored activities. You will remain youthful with your thirst to know and wisdom earned.
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