The Virgo Man
The Virgo Man: Love, Sex, Friendship, Style
The Virgo Man
you need your T's crossed and your I's dotted, call a Virgo man. He will relish
the task. Precise, exact, and critical, the Virgo man knows that the devil is in
the details, and he pays attention to them. He is also hardworking, efficient,
and methodical and can usually work or reason his way out of any challenge.
He has a tremendous sense of duty and will work towards serving the greater
good, be it his family, friends, work network, or community. He is skilled at
fact finding and enjoys getting to grips with minutiae that many others would
find overwhelming. He is usually Employee of the Month or Most Valued Player on
any team, as everyone knows that you can count on the Virgo man to get things
right the first time, and every time. He also loves to help out others.
Virgo is associated with the characteristics of the Virgin, such as modesty and
purity. A Virgo man is balanced and fair. Most of all he has a certain noble
quality to his bearing which is also humble at the same time.
Ruled by Mercury, you will never a find a Virgo man standing still for long. As
fleet-footed as the Roman god that rules him, the Virgo man is a bundle of
energy both mentally and physically. He is a powerhouse of achievement, often
solving the next complex problem in his head while his hands do the work of the
moment. He is also a very good communicator, as befits a sign ruled by the God
As competent as he is, he doesn't always have the confidence to pursue his
ambitions or to shoot high.
The Virgo man is prone to studying every situation in great detail. He is
interested in understanding… well, everything and everyone. His goal is
perfectionism, in himself, first, then his work, then the others around him, and
finally the world. He isn't being condescending; he's just trying to do his bit
towards improvement and enlightenment. He has very discriminating tastes and
neatness is an ongoing priority for him. Virgoans are associated with Earth, and
most Virgo men are grounded and practical. He is a sensible sort, with a
tendency to worry overly much.
Love, Sex, Romance, and Relationships with an Virgo Man
The Virgo man seeks perfection and the game of love is his pet project when it
comes to chasing ideals. He is not flighty, or inconstant. A Virgoan will only
fall in love after he has applied his mind to the situation at hand, exploring
all the pros and cons, all the cracks, flaws, and strengths of an emotional
investment. His practical and sensible nature fails to understand the romance in
candlelit dinners and spontaneous weekend trips overseas. However a Virgo man in
love will schedule his entire methodically planned life around you, call when he
says he's calling, bend over backwards to be a better man, person, father, and
lover to you and protect, honor, and serve you. Not a bad exchange, really.
In a relationship, the Virgo man is faithful, thoughtful, and loves to help. He
is partial to stability and predictability, and will be home helping you set the
table, balance the finances, and throw a ball around with the children on
weekends. He strives to be the perfect partner in a relationship and he is
capable, kind, and loyal. He is easygoing and relaxed in relationships, and is
not high maintenance.
Sex with a Virgo man may be an affair approached with military precision if he
isn't yet confident with you. All the details will have been thought of
beforehand and addressed. The act itself will go through smoothly, but what of
passion and animal lust? The Virgo man often surprises his lovers. Yes, he can
be a little puritanical, at least until you unlock the hidden passions that lie
within. His element is Earth, so a certain raunchy aspect of this otherwise
strait-laced sign is to be expected. He is demanding in bed and his attention to
detail translates to a man who is a competent and skilled lover. He needs a lot
of reassurance to come out of his shell, and when he does, you'll enjoy his more
relaxed approach. Opposites often attract the Virgo man, and he is fascinated by
the wild and wanton in others, traits that he often feels is repressed in
He is generally considered most compatible with Capricorn, Taurus, Scorpio, and
Cancer. See also Sun sign compatibility. However, there is a lot more to compatibility than only the comparison of the
Sun signs. For example, how do your Venus signs compare? Find out
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Understanding Virgo Men
The Virgo man is a perfectionist and his continuous search for self improvement
regularly makes this gentleman's life unnecessarily complicated. Overly
analytical and rarely satisfied with the way things are, the Virgo man is often
his own worst enemy when it comes to enjoying life and relationships.
Money & the Virgo Man
Not one to take chances with his money, the Virgo man's financial portfolio will
contain conservative investments that are tailored for long-term stability
rather than any aggressive short-term yields.
The Virgo man can be counted on to always have a little something put aside for
a rainy day.
Fashion & the Virgo Man
Although practical navy blue and conservative greys are favored colors of the
Virgo man, he has exceptionally good taste and his stylishly sophisticated
wardrobe attests to that.
The Virgo man is meticulous when it comes to his appearance, so you can expect
some battles with his partner for bathroom time. It will be a rare occasion when
you find this gentleman having a bad hair day, unshaven, or dressed in sloppy
Relationships & the Virgo Man
The Virgo man doesn't express emotion very well and this can make him appear too
reserved and even unapproachable at times. He finds it difficult to let anyone
get emotionally close to him, so making new friends and committing to a
relationship is sometimes a problem.
Extremely discriminating, the Virgo man is particular when it comes to choosing
a companion and his partner.
Some Virgo men should learn to lighten up and realize that not all discussions
have to be dominated by facts, figures, and profound words of advice – he would
do well to put a little small talk into his conversations. The humbler Virgos
know this intuitively, or have learned it, and only offer their insight when
asked, and it's very much appreciated! Virgo men make fabulous friends who are
always there when needed.
Romance & the Virgo Man
When a Virgo man feels secure with his partner, he'll work extremely hard to
maintain a strong, loving relationship. This gentleman enjoys bringing pleasure
to his companion, so when he asks what you like, he really wants to know.
The Virgo man can't help analyzing his own performance and this can extend right
to the bedroom. Since the man is always looking to improve what he does, it
shouldn't come as any surprise when you find him reading books on romance and
love making techniques, although he may not want you to know.
He's more fact than fantasy and role playing may not be an automatic part of his
bedroom repertoire, but don't rule it out. As modest and conservative as he may
be, the Virgo man can be quite surprising when it comes to pleasing his partner.
Health & the Virgo Man
The Virgo man may be afflicted with indigestion and ulcers because he simply
worries too much – about everything!
Taking care of his health is the practical thing to do, so the Virgo man
frequently exercises – sometimes to excess. Even when he feels well this man
can't help analyzing every little ache and pain. He doesn't necessarily suffer
from hypochondria, but close to it. The Virgo man can benefit from
stress-relieving activities and relaxation techniques.
Career & the Virgo Man
The Virgo man can find himself so wrapped up in the small details of his job
that it clouds his view of the bigger picture. This could stifle advancement
opportunities in his career. This gentleman takes his work far too seriously and
neglects his need for some really important leisure time with friends and
The Virgo man would make a great scientist, analyst, copyeditor, writer,
mathematician, bookkeeper, executive assistant, inspector, or psychologist.
Meticulous, analytical and always critical – the Virgo man could do well as a
literary critic or talent scout.
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